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Women’s Dream Enlightenment | Episode 49
Kris Ashley is a dynamic coach, author, speaker, podcast host, and television host with a passion for personal development, spirituality, and science. She has spent over two decades immersed in the research and teachings she shares In 2022, she published her first book, Change Your Mind To Change Your Reality, which received endorsements from spiritual and self-help heavyweights Michael Beckwith, Marci Shimoff, Bob Doyle, John Gray, and Anita Moorjani.
Today, Kris is a regular panelist at personal development events with The Los Angeles Tribune and is the director and lead trainer of their Leadership Academy. She is also the host of the television show Beyond Reality on the Ethereal Network.
In recent years, the conversation around the intersection of quantum physics and spirituality has gained momentum. It offers a scientific lens through which we can view concepts like the law of attraction and interconnectedness that are often attributed to spirituality. Quantum physics provides a universal medium to understand these concepts, creating common ground for people regardless of their diverse backgrounds or belief systems.
Quantum Physics: A Gateway to Understanding
One of the foundational principles of quantum physics is the many-worlds theory, which posits that there are an infinite number of timelines and parallel spaces coexisting at every moment. All possibilities exist in this quantum realm until a choice is made, at which point a particular timeline manifests. This mirrors concepts often discussed in spiritual practices, where decision and intention shape one’s reality.
The Fascination of Quantum Entanglement
Another compelling aspect is quantum entanglement, which demonstrates the profound interconnectedness of all things. This principle shows how particles can influence one another across vast distances instantaneously. The idea of deep connectivity resonates with spiritual teachings that highlight the unity and interconnectedness of all life forms.
The Unseen World
A particularly intriguing statistic is that the human eye perceives only 0.0035% of the visible light spectrum, leaving 99% of our reality invisible to us. This acknowledgment invites a sense of mystery and wonder about the unseen world, aligning closely with spiritual explorations of what lies beyond our immediate perception. There is so much more happening than what we can detect, and this makes the exploration of both quantum physics and spirituality especially thrilling.
Conclusion
Quantum physics not only provides a scientific underpinning to many spiritual concepts but also invites us to broaden our understanding of reality. It encourages us to explore beyond the visible and to appreciate the intricate tapestry of interconnectedness that defines our existence. As these fields continue to converge, they offer enriching perspectives to navigate both the tangible and the intangible aspects of our world. Whether one approaches from a scientific or a spiritual angle, the journey through these explorations is undoubtedly fascinating and enlightening. life-changing teachings.
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[amy robeson: Women’s Dream Enlightenment Guest Recording Session
Megan Mary – MeganMary: [00:00:00] Welcome! Today we have Amy Robison, Akashic Record Master Teacher Healer and Founder of Sacred Awakening. She empowers individuals through her powerful Akashic Records program to tap into their inner potential for transformation by cultivating curiosity to live their best lives. Amy speaks light codes and light language, plus she shows you how to be courageous enough to walk your divine path. Welcome, Amy.
Amy Robeson: Thanks for having me. I’m excited to be here.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Oh, it’s wonderful to have you here. And there’s so many things that we’re going to talk about today. I’m really excited for our conversation.
Amy Robeson: Me too.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: So I’m going to ask you the first question that I ask everybody. And that is, what does enlightenment mean to you?
Amy Robeson: That’s a good question. So enlightenment means to me is to enter into light. So you’re embarking on this journey of [00:01:00] embracing all the dark parts of yourself and healing them throughout your lifetime. So it’s like you’re bringing yourself into light because we were both equally light and dark.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes. And that’s true. It’s important to not discard the darkness. A lot of people think, Oh, we need to dispel the darkness. We need to get rid of our shadow, but we really have to embrace them both. We have to integrate them into that wholeness rather than discarding or trying to push away that darkness.
So I think that’s important.
Amy Robeson: Yeah, I, I agree. It’s this radical honesty with ourselves. And when it comes to enlightenment too, it’s a self discovery journey. Like when you are discovering something new about yourself, either good, bad or neutral, it allows you to have an understanding of where your frequency is vibrating at. [00:02:00] And do you want to vibrate at that frequency or do you want something different?
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes, and I’d love for you to talk a little bit with the listeners about your journey. And how you came to discover all of these things that we’re going to talk about today, we’re going to talk about light language and Akashic records and spirit guides and crystalline energy and all these amazing things, but how did you discover all of this yourself?
Amy Robeson: It, was because I was in a dark place. So I was in a place where I didn’t want to be here anymore. And I started receiving intuitive downloads. At the time, I didn’t have that languaging. And I just kept hearing go to hot yoga. I’m like, I don’t even know what that is. But I looked it up finally one day and there was a brand new Bikram studio.
Down the road from my house. And I was like, okay, I’ll go check this out. And when I went, it was like the first time, in a very long time that I just felt. [00:03:00] happy and at peace and in my body and I didn’t feel like I was disassociating. And that one step led me to the next step, led me to the next step, led me to the next step.
And I’m a big believer. Just follow the energy that your heart is guiding you to say yes to, and you will be taken down paths. You’ve never imagined that you would be taken down. That is for the better of your soul. And so from that place, I started having this desire to learn how to meditate and I moved I, I’m from Milwaukee, Wisconsin, and I moved to Charleston, South Carolina to be with my now husband.
And when I moved there yoga got taken away from me because I got injured. I cracked my tailbone for the second time in my life. And so I was in constant chronic pain and I was depressed. I was homesick. I didn’t have my usual schedule. I was going through an identity crisis. I was definitely going through a dark night of the soul.
And I just. [00:04:00] I didn’t know what to do. And so I sat down and I was like, what are the things that I’ve been wanting to do that I’ve been putting off? And that was to learn how to meditate and to do dream interpretation. And I know you’re really into dreams as well. And because at the time I was having nightmares for years and years of people killing me.
And so I wanted to understand what my dreams meant, because I’ve had prophecy dreams since I was a little kid. And so I wanted to have a better understanding of that landscape and what my subconscious was trying to tell me or where I was at in my dreams. And so I found my first teacher and my first teacher had channeling abilities like Edgar Casey, she was a trans medium and she would do these life soul readings.
And at the end of that reading, I was telling her how I wanted to learn how to meditate and how I wanted to learn how to do dream interpretation. And it was literally everything she taught. She taught people how [00:05:00] to do these things. And so that led me down this path of. Discovering healing abilities and the Akashic records and it just one thing would lead into the other, lead into the other.
And now I’m here talking to you. It’s just insane. Like, it’s insane. What one decision can make on your entire life.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yeah, I love that journey. I’ve also injured my tailbone, so I know how horrible that can be. And yes, and I used to do Bikrama yoga a lot, a long time ago, so I also know how freeing that can be. So yes, and meditation actually was one of the doorways that got me into my whole spiritual remembering as well.
Amy Robeson: That’s awesome.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yeah, it really was what Call was called for at the time that seemed to quiet my mind enough to let that, that information start coming through. Like you said, those downloads and the directives because they were a lot of directives and [00:06:00] they were pretty emphatic. Like, you have to do this and you have to do it now and you better hurry.
That was really how
mine
Amy Robeson: taking you out the door.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: It was just, it was like, it wasn’t like you have a choice and it wasn’t like when you’re ready. It was like, oh, no, go, go, go, go, go.
Amy Robeson: Yeah. Interesting. Yeah. For, me, meditation killed my chronic pain. I was able to get off pain pills within a month, a month and a half, because it was so long. I don’t remember the exact amount of time, but within a month and a half, I was no longer limping. I limped for over a year.
I was in chronic pain for over a year because it was the second time I cracked my tailbone. It wasn’t the first time it was the second time. So, and when you’re in pain, you get just sucked into the tornado of pain and it consumes you when you don’t have an outlet for it.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes, absolutely. It’s so distracting. It’s all your brain can focus on and it’s, you can’t think of anything else but that pain. I also have [00:07:00] had chronic pain, and I know exactly what that’s like. I’ve had some guests on that have talked about overcoming chronic pain with meditation. And it’s very powerful, the power of the mind.
And people don’t necessarily give it enough credence, I think, particularly in the medical field, because they throw medications at it. And yes, sometimes you need those in the short term, but. At least in my journey, you find out in the long term that you actually have to really bring your mind into that healing scenario that you can’t just address what’s going on in the body without addressing what’s going on in the mind.
Amy Robeson: Yeah, absolutely. And the, the thing about pain is most pain is emotional pain. You are experiencing it physically, but when you work on the emotional components of it, you can untangle some of the mess with it as well. And then there is pain. Physical pain. So we’re not like discounting physical pain, because if you break your ankle, you crack your tailbone, you [00:08:00] fracture something, you go through a medical procedure, there’s real pain, physical pain there, but there’s emotional components as well.
Just like I had a friend that had a hysterectomy, but she was still having pains down there. I’m like, you got to work on the emotional component of it. Cause if you don’t, you’re going to have those phantom pain still there that is causing you, your body signaling your, your soul is signaling. There’s something here that’s been buried in the past.
That’s time for you to take a look at.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes. And that’s how dreams work too, isn’t it? They signal to you, Hey, there’s something buried here that we need to uncover, that we need to bring to the fore and that you might not be a top of mind. It might not be something you think. Even consciously know are aware of,
but once you start to decode that language and you start to understand the messages that it’s sending you, you realize, oh, yeah, okay, I do.
[00:09:00] I need to do something about that.
Amy Robeson: definitely.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: So talk a little bit about activating our DNA.
Amy Robeson: So we have trillions and trillions and trillions of cells in our body. And when our consciousness fell, there were some dark forces that place certain seals upon us to make us forget to not allow us to connect to our unconditional love to access our dream states to their fullest capacity to feel that we might be punished for our sins.
This is called like the wrath of God or God guilt. And there’s many things that were placed upon our DNA and we have the ability to activate our DNA and restructure our DNA. We have, I believe, over 13 trillion cells in our body. Majority of those have DNA strands. And don’t quote me on the exact number because I [00:10:00] can’t remember and I haven’t looked it up in a while, but we have trillions and with that it’s, we take our lifetime to activate our DNA and so we can activate our DNA through spiritual practices, through experiences, through meditation.
And we can also go in and purposely activate the DNA. And this is where I come in and I’ll I do it inside of the Akashic Records. We activate a certain amount of strands of DNA and within that particular activation, because we don’t want to activate all of our strands all at once. One, we wouldn’t be able to handle the frequency or the energy.
We would have a massive identity crisis and it’s just not good, but we can go in and we can activate a certain amount and depending on what DNA is activated at that time will depend on what experience you get to have with that activation around where The last activation round I did, like I had a massive, massive shift in my light [00:11:00] language and my channeling with the light language and my understanding of light language.
And then there’s times where you’re accessing new gifts, or there’s times where you’re letting go of old patterns or beliefs, or it could be working on some sort of health issue a disease within your body. And so it just depends on you and what’s being activated and what serves the highest good at that moment in time, because it meets you where you’re at in that particular time.
And so it’s really neat because I’ve had students that are like , I’m downloading this new knowledge that’s very esoteric that no one’s taught me and I’m looking it up and it’s like very on point with other concepts.
And so it’s, it’s really neat when it happens because I never know what’s going to happen for each student because it’s, I’m not picking what’s going to happen. It’s their soul. That’s picking what’s going to happen and what serves the highest good at that time. And [00:12:00] we want to work on our DNA throughout our lifetime.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: That’s so interesting. And how does that tie in with activating the crystalline energy?
Amy Robeson: There’s like a through line for me in all of my work. I, I use crystalline energy and DNA activations. I use it in all my healings and meditations and downloads. And I teach the Akashic records. How do people, how. To open your Akashic records using crystalline energy and so crystalline energy and light language and the Akashic records are all are my 3 through lines for everything.
Those are 3 tools that I’m constantly utilizing and we’re carbon based beings. We’re moving to a crystalline being. And so with that, we want to work with the crystalline energy. To assist in shifting our frequency and up leveling our frequency we have tons and tons and tons of crystalline energy within the earth.[00:13:00]
And just like if you go to Arkansas, it’s in the riverbeds, it’s in the water. And we can access that and. They want to support us. They want to connect with us and they want to assist us. And I’m going to use this blanket term like X, Y, Z, depending on what it is you’re working on, there’s a crystalline energy that can support that.
So if you’re wanting to get better sleep or you’re wanting to amplify your intuition, or if you’re wanting to get more heart centered, or if you’re wanting to heal your emotional body, or if you’re wanting to balance your root chakra, there is a crystalline energy that can support you and bringing that into balance or support you in coming into that frequency.
Cause at the end of the day, we’re all frequency.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes, absolutely. And that’s why sound frequency is so powerful
Amy Robeson: Yeah, absolutely.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: There’s so many ways to help raise our vibration. I think a lot of these healing modalities really just work in that method that they really help us to move [00:14:00] out the old energy, bring in that new energy and keep us vibrating at that higher level that allows us to tap into that spiritual intelligence, allows us to connect with that greater source that has all that information for us that we have been separated from, detached from, or we just kind of decided not to listen to anymore.
Amy Robeson: Yeah. And the, the cool part is, is you get to choose your path. If there’s a tool that doesn’t resonate with you, then don’t, don’t utilize that tool. That tool is not the end all, be all tool. It’s what tools work for you and what do you really connect with? Because just like with meditation. That’s a, generic form of saying, to go within, right.
But there’s different types of meditation and not every type you’re going to resonate with. The main thing is to [00:15:00] utilize that tool in a way that resonates with you. And for, me these are the tools that I really enjoy that have really changed my life. And I’ve seen other people’s life gets changed by that, but.
It’s not a tool for every single person. And, like, just where you were talking about sound healing, like, light language. Is one form of sound healing because you’re making sounds and every sound or tone holds paragraphs of information that your higher self completely understands, even if your mind doesn’t understand what it means, but your higher self completely understands how to utilize that cosmic language of your soul to support you in healing.
And not everyone’s light language is or. You as well. So it’s like you got to be really you have to use a lot of discernment to [00:16:00] understand does that align with my path in this moment in time, because not everything that everybody shares and it can be good, bad or good. Neutral, not everything that everybody’s sharing at any given time is in alignment with you.
They could be offering something so awesome. That’s so high vibe, but it’s not in alignment with the frequency in which you are moving into, and it can really distort some things. And so this is the spiritual practice of discernment is so important on our path because. You have to understand that you are solely responsible for your enlightened path.
You are solely responsible for your awakening. And when you understand like, Oh, that person’s offering this, will this help me hold full time? If it does, and it’s in alignment, perfect. If it doesn’t, or it didn’t work for you, Ask why and there has to be some [00:17:00] form of accountability on your own and on why it didn’t work.
And if the teacher showed up and did everything they were supposed to do that, they promised if it didn’t work, why, why didn’t work? And, or if it did, why did it work? Because what did you do to allow it to work? Because a healer, and I consider myself a healer, I’m not healing anybody. I’m showing up with a particular frequency for my clients to meet, and they are the ones that open the door to allow that frequency to meet them where they’re at, so they can raise their frequency.
They are the ones that are healing themselves. And they are their own guru. They are their own answer to in which they are seeking whatever it is that they are seeking freedom from or enlightenment or healing or whatever it, it may be.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: I agree with that a hundred percent, especially with the dream work that I do. It’s not [00:18:00] something that you really can sell per se. It’s something that someone has to find and be drawn to you because of your vibration and know that you have a way that you can help them help themselves because The way that I work with it.
I don’t put a on a person. I don’t say, well, this is what it is. I help them draw out the meaning for themselves. Someone called me a midwife of dreams. And that’s, that’s kind of how I. Look at it that I’m just the guide. I’m just the assistant and that they’re really the ones doing the work.
They’re the ones finding me. They’re the ones being willing to do that work. And I’m, I’m glad you also brought up the light language because that is something I really want to talk about today. You’re the first guest that I’ve had on that is really focusing on that. And I, I like what you said about, not all of it being right for everyone, because when I first discovered it, of course, it was [00:19:00] fated.
And what I heard just shot up my chakras, just all of a sudden I was like, whoa. And I was like, this is so powerful. This is so amazing. And then when I went to listen to a few others, I was like, okay, that’s not the same. And I wouldn’t have known that at the first experience. I would have thought, oh, it’s all like this.
Amy Robeson: No. And so language assists with bringing someone out of a trance. We are in many different trances in our life. And what it does is it speaks higher self to higher self. It’s a cosmic language of your soul. And what the channeler is doing, the light language person is doing, either they’re speaking it, signing it, moving with it or writing with it. And so with these different forms of light language. We’re tuning into a particular radio station that where we’re [00:20:00] channeling information from not every radio station for this channel is of light and so in some people knowingly or unknowingly are channeling something that they shouldn’t be channeling.
Or have someone that’s channeling this high vibrational light, but it is not a frequency match for your soul’s evolution at that particular moment in time. It might be at some point in your journey, or it might not be. And so everybody’s frequency is matched and what your higher self and your physical body experiences, because it’s also really important to understand that your physical body has to hold the frequency.
And if your physical body. Is not in a place to [00:21:00] hold it, or it’s just a complete frequency mismatch, because you might have this super high vibrational frequency you’re listening to someone that’s channeling, it might not be. darkness, but it’s a lower vibrational frequency than what you are vibrating at, it’s going to be a mismatch.
And so it’s really important to use discernment when it comes to connecting with someone that is speaking light language. And my guides, They told me I was going to start speaking it publicly and I’m like, no, I’m not doing that. I don’t want to do that. And they’re like, no, it’s, it’s really an alignment with your path and get comfortable with it.
And I’m like, I don’t want to do that. Please don’t like, I don’t I was really resistant because it’s super weird. Like, I’m the 1st 1 to admit it and I sneak it it’s very, very, very weird. And but it’s fun. It’s so much fun. And [00:22:00] once I started doing it, I was like, okay, I understand it. And then I remembered, oh, I used to do this when I was a kid, I used to speak light language when I was a kid, my sister and I would have this, our own language that we would speak to each other and, and we knew exactly what, what we meant.
And once I started speaking, I was like, okay, I get it. Oh, I remember now. Okay. Totally remember now. And so I have been speaking my language, I think since like 2000 as an adult since 2018. And it’s like, again, I still think it’s weird. And it’s funny because anybody that I, that I’ve worked with, they’re like, we can’t get enough of it.
Like, it’s just something that. Just changes what is being channeled because there aren’t human words that we can put in to articulation that wants to be [00:23:00] shared because it’s a frequency that’s being shared and we can describe the essence of it, but still we cannot put it into human words. What is fully.
Transcribed Being shared. And I think it’s just really neat, like super, super neat. Mm hmm. Mm
Megan Mary – MeganMary: it’s like trying to describe to someone that can’t hear what a song sounds like. It’s very difficult to put into words. something auditory. And I know myself when, when mine was activated, it really came in the form of song, but it was almost like it was self soothing is the best way I can
describe it.
Because when you hear others that are on your frequency speak it, it’s incredibly soothing.
It just takes you immediately to this other level and you get lost in it. And it’s like being held. I don’t know. I can’t describe how it [00:24:00] feels to me, but, for myself, it felt like I was doing that for myself.
Amy Robeson: Yeah, absolutely. And some people, it’s like one of my friends, he described it the best to me. I was doing a healing and he’s like, I was dozing off. And the second you started speaking, it was like my higher self was like, Hey, you know what? Listen, pay attention. This is important. And so, like, it snaps me into this new reality of wanting to receive.
And so, to me, it’s really fascinating. And the more that I utilize the tool and the more that I have more open discussions about it, The deeper my practice goes and my deeper the understanding goes as well, but I just, to me, it’s like. It’s such a weird thing, but it’s our birthright to speak it.
It’s our birthright to perform it. And some people are more comfortable [00:25:00] drawing. Some people are more comfortable moving with it. And some people are comfortable speaking with it. So it just depends on the student of the practice. What they’re drawn to. And with my light language, magic students, , it’s always fun every round because some of them are like, yeah, I really like doing the movement, but I, I’m really scared to do the sound.
And so we go back and forth on what we’re doing and how we’re doing it. Cause all of the forms are important because sometimes people need to move with it to get really in their body. Well, others they might not be used to speaking up. So speaking, it’s really powerful to have that to assist you in speaking your truth and honoring your truth.
And then well, well, written takes you into this really deep vortex of knowledge with it. And so everybody has a different form on what they’re. Gravitate towards and some some sing it some sound like a foreign [00:26:00] language and some it’s toning.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Right. And what would you suggest in terms of discerning whether it’s for you or not? For me, I would just say you’ll know immediately because it’s kind of like if you get in the car and there’s a song blasting and it’s, you don’t want to hear it. It’s not on your vibe, quote unquote, and you know right away, but are there other levels to that? Yeah.
Amy Robeson: So it depends on how people receive. So to me, it sounds like you have very strong clear cognizant, which is a clear knowing. And so someone might. a feeling where it’s like a gut feeling of like, no, I don’t like that or it might be a feeling of like expansion while another person might hear a yes or no, or feel a yes or no in their body, or it might have a particular taste or smell to it, or you [00:27:00] might see a sign that it’s a yes or no.
Or no for you. And so it’s really understanding how you receive information through your intuition. , if you ever got that gut feeling and that you were like, I shouldn’t have done that after you did it, even though you got the gut feeling beforehand, that right there gives you an idea of like, Oh, that’s kind of how I receive.
And I should have listened to my intuition at that moment in time. And so it’s important to not glamorize intuition, but utilize intuition in a way that allows you to fully understand how you’re receiving. And that’s where doing things in meditation or doing with the, Akashic records or anything that allows you to really utilize your intuition.
So you understand, how you receive is helpful.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes, I was just having a conversation online yesterday with another woman that she had gone into a bookstore and she had touched a particular book and started getting a [00:28:00] ringing in her ear. And, and she was wondering if she was, receiving some information. And I was like yeah, you are. Cause that’s definitely, I mean, I have so many of the Claire’s, but that’s another one is Claire, Claire audience for sure.
And everyone has all of them, but everyone starts out with certain ones being stronger.
Amy Robeson: that’s more, yeah, one’s just stronger. and if you’re an empath, typically you have a very clear knowing. Like, that’s the strongest Clare. Like, you identify as an empath, like, that’s usually typically the strongest Clare.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: In so many ways that dream state for me comprises all of those clairsenses, because it’s, it’s I have this space where I, that I call the middle world and , I get middle messages and they’re basically when I’m going from that dream state to that waking state and I like to hang out in there as much as possible.
And I know there’s famous inventors that used to actually try to induce that state over and over again so that they could
stay in that state.[00:29:00]
Amy Robeson: yeah. That’s cool. Would you consider that like lucid dreaming then if you’re
Megan Mary – MeganMary: No, it’s because it’s not actually dreaming. it’s transitioning from theta to beta, so
it’s this weird half half
Amy Robeson: I got what you mean. I know exactly
Megan Mary – MeganMary: where I’m not actually controlling it, I’m receiving,
Amy Robeson: But you’re aware that you’re there to some degree?
Megan Mary – MeganMary: but you don’t have all the faculties of judgment ready. So what you’re receiving if you’re trying to, if you’re trying to analyze whether you’re going to write it down or not, which is what I do a lot I’ll say, Oh, well, it’s just this.
I don’t need to write it down. And then as soon as I wake up, I go, wait a minute. What was that? Oh, I should have written it down because it’s very much then once you have all your faculties and then you go, Oh, okay. Okay. That was something major. And so
that’s why I constantly, constantly writing down everything I receive, whether it makes sense to me at the moment or not, because it’s really that, that space is where I get the most information, it seems. [00:30:00] But I would love if you would be willing to, if you would like to communicate a light Language message to the audience in closing today. I’m sure that they would really enjoy that.
Amy Robeson: Yeah, so we can do like a little mini healing transmission because the way that I use it is just within healings. So is there something you are working on right now that you would like support with?
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes. Well, my debut novel is about to come out. So it’s definitely something that I’m working on and just really charging out into the world and bringing everyone that needs to receive it in.
Amy Robeson: Okay, perfect. So we’ll do something with the fear of the unknown. So just letting go of the fear of the unknown. So we’ll just kind of make that the first thing I heard when you said that with your book coming out, which I’m really excited for your book to come out.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Awesome.
Amy Robeson: Okay. [00:31:00] So please do not drive or operate heavy machinery.
I know that sometimes people take that as a joke, but it’s a very serious comment because some people do fall into a deep trance while these transmissions and so don’t drive, you can come back to this later or operate heavy machinery. And wherever you are in a safe place, you can go ahead and close your eyes, bring your awareness into your heart space.
And just receive a breath, taking a nice deep breath in through the nose, cleansing breath out through the mouth, yourself permission to ground down into mother earth. Another nice deep breath in, cleansing breath out, allowing your grounding cord to root into Gaia, Mother Earth’s heart chakra. So your grounding cord is going to go to the core of the earth, which is a crystalline ball of energy.
You’re just going to plug into Mother Earth’s heart [00:32:00] chakra. You’re going to receive a breath, pulling her energy up into you, allowing her to love on you, hold you, and cradle you. And then you’re going to feel the crown of your head stretch up towards the great central sun.
And you’ll take an inhale. And on the exhale, you’ll feel the great I am creation, God, universe, whatever sacred title you give that being just wrap its arms around you and hold you. And then I want you to sense, feel, see, or imagine that in the center of your heart space where you sit, There’s this beautiful green emerald energy that’s surrounding you, and as it surrounds you, it lifts you up out of your heart space and brings you across all space and time where you land in a beautiful place in nature.
It is [00:33:00] the perfect time of day and the perfect temperature. You’re going to notice that there is a bonfire nearby and a body of water. You’re going to make your way over to the bonfire first. And as you stand before the bonfire, you’ll notice sense for. You’ll see or imagine that there’s a beautiful violet flame and then it’s the yellows and the orange and the reds within the flame as well.
And as you’re staring at this flame, you’re being invited to let go of any fear. Any habits or patterns or beliefs that are no longer serving you from
from a place of continuity with your aligned path. And so what [00:34:00] that means is you’re letting go of fear of the unknown. So whatever’s holding you back. From stepping onto your aligned path, we’re going to let that go. And so you’re going to step into the flame. And as you step into the flame, the violet flame, the oranges, the reds are going to engulf you.
You are safe. You are safe. You are safe. And you’re just going to dance within this sacred flame. And as you’re dancing, you’re going to start releasing and the flame and this beautiful element is going to. Full and transform anything that’s no longer serving you.
And I want you to really stomp your feet into the flames, and as you stop your feet into the flames, there’s gonna be like this. Energy and it could be like [00:35:00] sludge or oil or dense energy or even flakes that are just like falling off of your body and being and what’s being extracted are these fears of the unknown, these beliefs, these patternings that may be from your soul lineage or your ancestral lineage.
It’s being cleared across all space and time portals and dimensions seen unseen known unknown. And I want you to just breathe. And as you’re breathing, I want you to give yourself permission to just surrender because the flame itself does not destroy. It transforms.
Through through. And then there the flame is gonna help remove protection mechanisms from the heart [00:36:00] system.
And you’re gonna take one nice deep breath and cleansing breath, and you’re gonna just stomp into the fire. And this is gonna send shock waves into your aligned path, letting the universe know that you are ready to take the steps. On your aligned path with a place of empowerment from a place of gratitude and most importantly from a place of non fear because you’re entering into a path of unknown territory that is powerful and magnificent and you have the ability to create what your soul desires for you to create.
At a very successful level, and once you just take a nice deep breath in a cleansing breath out, and there’s going to be three crystalline energies that are going to come in to support you in aligning with this beautiful path. [00:37:00] Emerald rose quartz.
and green tourmaline.
And when you’re ready, you’re going to step out of the flame and you’re going to jump into the body of water that is infused with crystalline energy. And it’s going to act as an elixir for your soul. And it’s going to bring in beautiful messages from your team, from your high vibrational team, which is creation, God, universe, and any of your Master’s teachers and loved ones that serve your highest good.
It’s going to bring downloads in and these downloads are going to be messages that you’ll receive at a later date, and you might receive a message right here. And if you don’t, that’s okay. But I want you to just open your heart to receive that. I see what a hot [00:38:00] hot. There’ll be a moment of silence while this downloads.
And then when you’re ready, you’re going to take another nice, deep breath in. Cleansing breath out, feeling your energy drop back into your heart space. Another nice, deep breath in. Cleansing breath out,
wiggling your fingers and your toes, bowing your chin in towards your chest, blinking your eyes open whenever you are ready.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Thank you so much, Amy. That was amazing. I really enjoyed that.
Amy Robeson: Awesome. Well, I, I wish you the best of luck with your book launch.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Oh, thank you so much. I really appreciate [00:39:00] that. And I know you’re a big audiobook fan, so I will definitely let you know when that’s ready.
Amy Robeson: Awesome.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes. Yes. Well, thank you so much for being here today. Tell everyone where they can find you.
Amy Robeson: Yeah, you can go to theamyrobeson.com. That’s t h e a m y r o e as in boy is an edward s as in susan o n And if you put it in backslash free, there’s, we have 20 plus free healings on our website called sacred gifts. We have I have a weekly podcast that’s called awakening with Amy Robison. So there’s all sorts of different places you can find me.
So thanks for having me.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Oh, absolutely. Thank you so much for being here. And I just really, really appreciate all that you do and for sharing it with us today.
Amy Robeson: Yeah. Thank you so much.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Thank you.
Kris Ashley: Women’s Dream Enlightenment Guest Recording Session
[00:00:00] You’re listening to Women’s Dream Enlightenment. Dream decoding, deep discussions, and spiritual stories of self discovery to inspire your personal enlightened journey. I’m your host, Megan Mary, founder of Women’s Dream Analysis. Let’s bring in the light.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Welcome. Today we have Kris Ashley. Kris Ashley is a dynamic coach, author, speaker, podcast host, and television host with a passion for personal development, spirituality, and science. She has spent over two decades immersed in the research and teachings she shares. In 2022, she published her first book, Change Your Mind to Change Your [00:01:00] Reality, which received endorsements from spiritual and self help heavyweights Michael Beckwith, Marcy Shimoff, Bob Dole, John Gray, and Anita Morjani. Today, Kris is a regular panelist at personal development events with the Los Angeles Tribune and is the director and lead trainer of their Leadership Academy. She is also the host of the television show Beyond Reality on the Ethereal Network. Welcome Kris.
Kris Ashley: Thank you so much for having me, Megan. I’m really excited to be here.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes, this is a wonderful exchange because I was just a host on your podcast and I love really just doing these, these guest exchanges. It’s so much fun.
Kris Ashley: It’s really fun, and I was just telling you before we went on air, you completely changed the way that I interpret dreams now, the way you interpreted my dreams, so I was very blown away by the work you do.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Ah, wonderful. [00:02:00] Well, I will put a link to that in the show notes so everybody can listen to that episode as well. So the first question I’m going to ask is the one that I start with everybody. And that is, what does enlightenment mean to you?
Kris Ashley: Yeah, you know, you said that you were going to ask me that about a minute ago, so I’ve had about a minute to think about it, and the first thing that popped into my head was knowledge, because I’m a truth seeker. And I’ve been a truth seeker since 2002, which is funny because we had a little blip where you said something 2002 instead of 2022.
And I was thinking, I was like, oh, wow. That, that year is so significant to me. So you somehow intuited it. But I’ve been a seeker of knowledge ever since I had a spiritual awakening. And to me, enlightenment is that knowledge, but not just like book knowledge, but also embodying that knowledge and. [00:03:00] For me, it’s been learning about the higher realms and the other side of the veil and my soul purpose here and all of the things that it encompasses., and I think that that’s as close as we can get to enlightenment in our human body is really understanding that we’re, we’re vast and expansive and interdimensional.
And we’re so much more than this meat suit that we have on and that we’re all connected to each other.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes, that knowledge of the worldliness, the expansiveness, the vastness of our existence and of the universe is definitely what I think of as enlightenment. It’s not really an end point. It’s a journey.
Kris Ashley: Yeah, absolutely. I mean, I view Earth life as a school and it’s one of many schools. And when we leave this incarnation, we go on to the next one. And, and I think it’s far from the end point. I think it’s just one [00:04:00] little. One little grade one little level.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes. So I’d like to share with the listeners today, your spiritual journey on the show. We always have other women come on and talk about their stories of spiritual awakening and what led to their unique experience. So tell me about yours and where it began.
Kris Ashley: Yeah, absolutely. So my journey began in a place that you’ve probably had other guests also say, and that is my own trauma. So when I was 12, I was sexually abused by a family member. And I had this really big, tight knit, extended Italian family. Like, if you’ve ever seen my Big Fat Greek Wedding, we were like the Italian version of that.
Everyone’s big and loud and in each other’s faces, and we would sing anytime we were around each other. And the sexual abuse went on for four years. And when this big, tight knit family found out what happened many of them disowned me. [00:05:00] And people who had been like second mothers to me were writing me letters and leaving me voicemails telling me they didn’t love me anymore and I wasn’t their family anymore.
And as you can imagine, this left me with a lot of low vibration emotions, like anger and guilt and shame that as a young adolescent, I didn’t know how to cope with. You know, most adults don’t know how to cope with those types of emotions. And so I was in this downward spiral. I was, I turned to drugs, I was cutting, I was getting in trouble in school, I was in a really dark place.
And then my world totally changed when someone handed me a book. And what this book did is it showed me that there were other ways of thinking and being and kind of processing life on earth and that there’s so much more going on than what our eyes can see than we’re aware of. And I remember turning the pages and it was just like, it just felt like truth.
And it was kind of like a sleeper agent, right? Like something inside of [00:06:00] me just woke up. And when I finished that book, I started reaching for more and I just became insatiable. I started devouring every metaphysical, spiritual, new age, personal development book I could get my hands on. I started going to retreats.
I found teachers to study under. I was doing all these healing modalities. I was really doing the hard inner work, but I thought I was just, unlocking these mysteries of the universe that no one knew about, right? And this all, this all started in 2002, when someone handed me that book. And my life did a 180.
I was starting to manifest things. I was really changing my perspective, changing my mind about the nature of reality. But the other part of my story is as my life was starting to change, my mother started to get worse because her family had been ripped down the seams and she didn’t have these healing modalities in books and teachers that I did.
And so it manifested as physical illness for her. She got cancer. She got [00:07:00] a bunch of other really serious illnesses, but she also got a bunch of really bizarre afflictions that her doctors like had no idea. And so they did what they do. They gave her pills and then they give her pills for the side effects of those pills.
They’re just kind of throwing everything at the wall, hoping something would stick. And at the height of it, she was on a fentanyl patch. She was on 11 different pills, including Dilaudid, which is another narcotic. And she would fall down all the time, she would nod off at the dinner table, she would forget conversations we had the day prior, she slept for all but a few hours a daylight.
And that lasted almost 15 years. And I had this compounded guilt that I had destroyed my family and broken my mother. But I believe everything happens for a reason. And I realized that my mother was my biggest teacher because for every step that she took deeper into depression and illness and victimization, I climbed in the other [00:08:00] direction out of that dark tunnel because I was seeing firsthand, right in front of my face, what happens to a human body and spirit when we make that choice, because it’s always a choice.
And then I was seeing what was happening to my own life as I was simultaneously on this other path, right? And, I was seeing my world change. And so I made myself a promise, and it’s a promise I’ve kept to this day, that I would always do everything I could to heal physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and I would always prioritize my health in those categories.
And I’m still reading a book a week, and like, I’m still going to every retreat, I buy every course, cause the learning never stops, you know, I’ve already been talking about knowledge, and Eventually I wanted to give back after a couple decades and took a life coach training with Mary Morrissey, who’s wonderful and wrote my book, started my podcast, started my coaching company.
And now I’m just on this other path and it’s really [00:09:00] beautiful.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: That’s an amazing journey that you’ve been on and it’s not unlike a lot. Yeah. Like you said, a lot of Stories that I’ve heard, a lot of women in particular working in this space, we are all wounded healers, essentially. We’ve all had something that we’ve gone through that has forced us to look within and to realize that we are the ones in charge of our health and that our health isn’t just our medical bodily health.
That a lot of our medical bodily symptoms manifest because of our spiritual health and our emotional health from traumas and from held energies and emotions and patterns and experiences. And that it’s really up to us to take that initiative to [00:10:00] start to do that healing beyond the traditional, here’s a pill for that and then another pill for that pill.
Kris Ashley: Yeah, I think that you, a lot of people get to a point where they’re like, I have like a crossroads, right? Like I can either reinvent myself and heal and forgive and get better, or it can fall into this resentment and this illness and this blame and this victimization and you know, that’s not a life, right?
And I think so many people are in the healing arts because it takes going into the darkness to like really see that much light. And when you’ve gone through it, you’re like, I don’t want other people to suffer for decades like I did, right? You’re like, hey, let me show you what took me so long to learn so that maybe you have an easier time of it.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Absolutely. And or walk with you in the darkness, right? Which is what I always say, [00:11:00] because the dream world is that other side and it’s that other side that a lot of people. I don’t know how or don’t want to access because they’re afraid and many times they just need someone who’s been there and someone who can walk between those worlds to accompany them until they can do it themselves.
Kris Ashley: Yeah, absolutely.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: So one of the things I really. I’m fascinated by myself and then I’d love to talk a little bit more about on the show today is quantum physics and quantum healing and all of the aspects of the quantum. So tell me how that is involved in your work and how that’s influenced your journey.
Yeah.
Kris Ashley: Yeah, I love geeking out about it. And one of the things I really love to do, I do it in my book, I do it on my podcast, is To back all this spirituality up with science and the personal development [00:12:00] of a science. And I think we are living in such an exciting time because science is finally saying what mystics and spiritual teachings have been saying for eons, right?
Whether it’s epigenetics or neuroscience or quantum physics and quantum physics is the scientific explanation for a lot of spirituality for a lot of what we talk about with the law of attraction or this interconnectedness. So it’s such a great way to teach the work too, because Sometimes spirituality can be off putting depending on someone’s background, if they come from some sort of religious background or some sort of belief system.
And it’s kind of that common ground that everyone can get behind. And also it can get those more left brain people too. So, I mean, there’s so many aspects to quantum physics. I guess the first one that jumps out is that quantum physics says that, you know, there’s the many world theories that says, there’s [00:13:00] infinite number of timelines and spaces that are happening at the exact same moment as ours.
And all possibilities exist in this cloud, in this realm. And they exist there until you choose, right? When you make a choice, that timeline kind of opens up before you. And we talk about that in spirituality all the time. And, there’s entanglement that talks about how we’re all connected and how one particle can influence another one that’s light years and light years and light years away, instantaneous, without a second between them.
And. You know, I mean, like pick your poison, pick which way you want to go, because it’s so fascinating because it’s like all these things that we’re saying are true and provable and we just live in this incredible world. There’s there’s this statistic I love that says the human eye can only see 0.
0035 I think percent [00:14:00] of the visible light spectrum. So 99 percent of our world is invisible to us. There’s so much more going on than when, but we’re aware of, and it’s so exciting to explore. Okay.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes, I love that. And on the same path, there’s Tons of frequencies that we cannot hear as well. So, and this has proven both of the things, and so when we consider those things, Just like Wi Fi, everybody knows it exists, but you can’t see it, and everybody uses it, and it’s just an assumed thing. But, yet, there is such doubt about so many other things.
And, as we’re sitting here today, it is the full moon, harvest moon, super moon, lunar eclipse, and we have had X class flares. All week, there’s a lot going on celestially, a lot of electromagnetic [00:15:00] frequencies coming down to us. And there is a lot of interaction going on there that a lot of people might also dismiss.
They can see that. Oh, yes, we can see this on TV. We can see it’s happening. Oh, isn’t that interesting. But I think that in everyday life, there’s a real separation between the celestial influence in our spiritual life and our connection to the spiritual realm and the interdimensionality of the galaxies and all of that.
I think that’s really dismissed in a way, and we can scientifically quantify it, but where spirituality and science meet. Is yet to be determined.
Kris Ashley: absolutely. Absolutely. I mean, it’s, it’s interesting because, when you look back at history, no one believed in gravity or no one believes in electricity or whatever it was until it was really proven and harnessed and the awakened [00:16:00] community knows these forces exist. Of course they exist.
Right. And countless, countless people have had interactions with them, whether it’s even, people who have had past life experiences, or people who have had NDEs, or people who have done dream work, or energy healing so we all know what’s out there, I feel like, People are starting to wake up, back in 2002 when I had an awakening, like I couldn’t find other people to talk about this kind of stuff with.
And now it’s everywhere, right? Like, Law of Attraction is like a hashtag on Instagram that has who knows how many hits on it, right? So I do feel like people are starting to wake up and there’s I don’t know I just I’m just thinking like the medical community even like I just went through fertility treatments Not that long ago and the clinic was like you should get acupuncture that was part of their treatment.
So it’s slowly starting But I think the world is waking up and I think 2020 had something to do with it too. Right. People were home and [00:17:00] starting to realize like, wait, it was like a forced pause and it was like, okay, wait, there’s more to life than just work, eat, sleep, entertainment.
Money like, oh yeah, there’s this connection with nature and there’s this connection with each other and we can, we can go within and find stillness and or be in community. So I think it’s happening slowly, but surely, but it’s definitely, the rest of us that have been on this journey for a while are just kind of sitting back watching like, okay,
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yeah, so it was definitely a wake up call and it was also, like you said, an opportunity. It’s interesting to see what people did with that space people were consuming content.
Books and learning and creating and, really doing things that they would never have had the opportunity to do that were really expansive activities. I think that was a chance for a lot of people who were part of that ascension that. Expansion that’s happening and not everybody can [00:18:00] be part of it that everybody wants to be part of it.
But there are a lot of people who are having that awakening that are part of it. And that was just maybe 1 of those times that. The earth cooperated with us to say, okay, we’re just going to destabilize everything for a little bit, and it’s not going to be easy, but you’ll see that there’s going to be a lot of opportunity in it, right?
There’s like a silver lining.
Kris Ashley: Totally. I mean, I, I say the same thing all the time. I took every course I could because everything went virtual. I wrote my book. But other people had a really hard time and that’s okay. Right? Like we’re not here to shame anyone. And, and you made a good point when you said, you know, not everyone is going to be on that spiritual awakening.
Like there’s that whole idea of like 5d and 3d earth splitting. And it doesn’t mean that anyone’s left behind or people are less than or anything, like people are on their own soul evolution and they recycle back into, maybe another incarnation [00:19:00] here and another 3d space and it’s, it’s fine.
And there’s, millions of souls on the path ahead of you. There’s millions of souls on the path behind you. Your timing is perfect and it’s all just part of it.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes. It all happens when it’s supposed to.
Kris Ashley: Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: The universe has its own, I would say timeline, but it’s not really, it’s not a timeline because there is no timeline.
Kris Ashley: Yeah. Right. That’s when it gets trippy.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yeah, time and space don’t really exist.
Kris Ashley: It’s all happening right now.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes. So on your podcast, I had the opportunity to interpret one of your dreams and I love to integrate the discussion of dreams on my show and talk about how that’s been influential, if at all, for you on your journey because a lot of people have very much had profound experiences, whether they be lucid experiences or [00:20:00] premonitions or visitations.
And for me, that was really the gateway for my awakening. So did you find that dreams played a role in yours as well?
Kris Ashley: Yeah, and I think it was you actually who told me the other day, you’re like, you’re clairvoyant and after our call, and I’ve been thinking about that ever since, but I, for as long as I can remember, I’ll have a dream about someone who I haven’t seen in like years and the next day they’ll call me or I’ll find out that they had a baby or got married or some big life event.
And I lost my, my heart dog and my dad within the last like year and a half, and I have visitation dreams all the time. And I, I mean, they’re not like dreams, right? It’s a visitation. Like I know my dad is dead in them. And We’ll just be sitting and talking and I’ll just look at him and just be like, God, I miss you so much.
And he’ll be like, I know you do, but I’m going to keep dropping in from time to time. And he’ll give me a big hug. And like, we have these [00:21:00] conversations like that. And I have them somewhat often. And I actually had like a real visitation from him. It was like, it was one of the coolest experiences ever. I get sleep paralysis and I’ve had it, I’ve had it forever.
Maybe you have some spiritual thought on that, but I’ve always gotten it and it always happens. When I’m falling asleep and it used to like really scare me. And sometimes it still does kind of freak me out. Cause it’s that idea of like, I’m awake, but I can’t move. But I had this crazy experience where I was in sleep paralysis and I had this dog, like sniffing my face.
And at first I was so annoyed. I was like, ah, Shane, my husband, let our dog bully in the room. And I told him I was going to take a nap and why is he in here? And I realized it wasn’t woolly. And then I realized it was my parents, old dog Casey. And then I looked on the floor and it was my old dog soda, running around.
And then I looked next to me in the bed and my dad was right there. And he was like, hi. I got the impression that he had been trying to like break through. And it was [00:22:00] such a, him thing. He was like, brought the dogs, right? We’re animal lovers. I can just see him being like, come on guys, let’s go visit her.
So I’ve had a lot of really kind of clairvoyant moments and dreams and yeah, and it’s interesting. Like I, I never really thought about it much as something like unique until I was talking to you actually.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes, I mean, we all have all of those clear senses, right? We just need to activate them. Many times when we start paying attention to our dreams, that can be the catalyst for us to start, not just. receiving information, but sensing it in our waking life, seeing the synchronicities and the subtle symbolism in things in our waking life.
Once we start looking at it in the dream, all of a sudden we go, Oh, isn’t it weird that, and we’re still so prone to dismiss [00:23:00] it. Nevertheless, very significant and we have to pay attention. So, I was editing my second book this morning, and there I am writing my beat sheet, and I get to September 17th. I’m like, isn’t that funny that that’s today? No, it’s not just a coincidence and, and even I can find myself brushing it off. Yeah, of course, because you’re writing and it’s based in September and that’s just a coincidence, but it’s not. All of those things that we notice that we think, Oh, isn’t that funny?
Isn’t that weird? Those are the little breadcrumbs from the universe pushing us along our way.
Kris Ashley: So what do you think that breadcrumb was trying to tell you? Like, little signs like that. Like, what’s, what’s the significance of that? Is it that you’re on the right path? You’re doing things at the right time? Like, what is it?[00:24:00]
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yeah. Yes, and it’s the same when I see the, people call them angel numbers, but really just numerologically with the time, because you can look at the clock at any time, but if you happen to start seeing them multiple times throughout the day, certain days I do, and it’s always, oh, it’s 1111, it’s 333, it’s 555, you know, you just happen to just always see that throughout the day.
That’s not a coincidence either.
Kris Ashley: You know, what’s funny about that? I mentioned my dog had died. Since the day she died, twice a day, every day, without fail, for almost two years, I’ve seen 555.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Thanks.
Kris Ashley: And I finally talked to a pet communicator about it. She’s like, oh yeah, it’s her. But yeah, no, totally, totally the numbers for sure.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes. So, I just love looking into my dreams and looking for those things [00:25:00] also throughout my daily life. Just, I think being cognizant of it allows more in. The more that you kind of go, yeah, okay, and you acknowledge it, the more, yeah. You get the more it just keeps coming and coming and coming and I, I find it supportive and comforting.
Kris Ashley: You know what’s been popping up for me the last week too is smells. And smells that remind me of my dad. And it’s like, Are you there, dad. And that’s kind of a new thing. That’s kind of come on.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Now that’s another one of the clair senses is being able to smell something that you associate with someone or that has passed on for sure. Or even being able to smell something that’s associated with. [00:26:00] If you’re picking up someone else’s energy, or you’re doing a reading or whatever it might be. So that’s called clairalience .
And so the, the integration of the regular senses, so clairaudience being able to hear something, but then being able to hear from the beyond, being able to smell something, being able to smell from the beyond, being able to see something, but being able to see something from the beyond, all of those things are part of that.
Clairsense activation, really.
Kris Ashley: Yeah. It’s interesting that you said like dreams can be the kind of portal to turn that on and as you tap into it, other things awaken. So no, honestly, I feel like it was you saying that I was like, Oh, okay. And now it’s in my head and now other things are happening. So it’s kind of a cool journey. It’s kind of fun to see what else happens.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes. I love that. Have you been writing down your [00:27:00] dreams since the episode?
Kris Ashley: I haven’t had a dream since the episode, actually. Yeah, no, it’s interesting. I haven’t, but I, I always, yeah, I always write down my dreams.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yeah. The full moon for me is high volume dream time.
Kris Ashley: Really?
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes. And just as, as women, we cycle, but we also are so affected by the cycle of the moon and we don’t really notice that until we start paying attention. So eventually I’m going to produce a dream journal that actually allows you to track the moon phase at the same time, because I think it’s so fascinating to the parallels that happen there.
Kris Ashley: Yeah, that’s super cool.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: So tell me a little bit about your book, Change Your Mind to Change Your Reality. I love the title.
Kris Ashley: Thank you. Yeah, so it’s kind a little bit like it sounds , when we [00:28:00] change the way that we look at things, when we change our perspective, entire worlds can open up before us. And, part of Changing your perspective is a lot of what we’ve already talked about where there’s so much more going on than what we’re aware of, right?
And I back it all up with quantum physics and all these different stories. So it’s whether we’re talking about soul contracts or whether we’re talking about being able to heal yourself, right? Or heal relationships. If you can change the way you think about pain or illness or the things you’ve gone through, then your story changes and your life can completely change too.
And I also talk a lot about the law of attraction and, and give little journaling exercises and to help people get really clear on their vision and then help them navigate that gap between where they are now and what their dream life looks like and, and removing the things that block all of that from [00:29:00] working,
things like your belief system that you’ve had since childhood or holding on to grudges, there’s a whole chapter dedicated to forgiveness holding on to repressed emotions, you know, just having a specific story, being in a victim mindset. It’s really completely transforming your life.
And a lot of it is rooted in the journey that I went on to. So there’s a lot of like personal little anecdotes sprinkled throughout too.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: I love that. That’s really what makes it feel so much more accessible to people. It’s when you really tell your own personal story, which is, which is why we podcast, right? So that we can really deliver that conversation that feels like it’s happening in a vacuum and allows the audience to just be a fly on the wall in our personal, very deep conversation about all of these ethereal concepts.
So it’s important to. [00:30:00] Allow space for that vulnerability, because in that authentic ness of sharing your very personal story, that’s where people connect and resonate with you and really start to feel, one, not so alone on their journey, but two, validated in their experience.
Kris Ashley: Absolutely. And you’re right, it happens in a vacuum. You know, people, especially with trauma, people don’t want to talk about it, but sometimes they don’t even know to talk about it. Like I think back on my own self, when I was 12, 13, 14, 15, I was really angry. And I had all of these feelings of guilt and anger and all these things and depression.
But I didn’t tie it back to like, oh, it’s because I went through this thing. You know what I mean? Like, it took a long time you open up, any, psychology textbook and it’s like trauma victim PTSD [00:31:00] 101, like every symptom I had, but , I didn’t know that.
I thought I was just alone and I didn’t understand what I was feeling. So I think the same thing goes with, with spiritual awakenings too. The more we can talk about it. And I think you’re absolutely right in being vulnerable because then you’re authentic and people connect with you.
When you’re, not authentic, people can sniff that out. Right. And we don’t need any more fakeness in this world. We need authentic healers and people living from their heart. Right. That’s, that’s what this world needs.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes, absolutely. Because when you step into the path as a healer, you have to let go of everything you thought you were anyway.
Kris Ashley: Hmm.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Or you cannot embody that path truly. You cannot be truly in alignment if you’re trying to be something. You have to let it all go and become the vessel for the message, which is really the process of that [00:32:00] spiritual awakening.
It’s really what allows. You to become the messenger.
Kris Ashley: I love that. Yeah. You’re just a channel for it. Right.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes. Yes.
Kris Ashley: that’s a great way to put it.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: the only way it can happen.
Kris Ashley: Yeah, you have to be of service, right? It has to be greater than you. Because people can sniff that out too, right? If you’ve ever been to like a talk or listened to a podcast or seen a speaker and they’re just up there because it’s like an ego thing versus like really wanting to be in service of the audience.
I can totally feel that.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes. Yes. And so at some point that message isn’t gonna resonate with people and isn’t going to be received because it’s not coming from a place of authenticity. So energetically, it’s. on a different wavelength, let’s say, and it’s not really going to have the power that something else [00:33:00] would that was coming straight from the heart and that was really genuine.
Kris Ashley: Yeah, absolutely. And I think that just takes us full circle to, a lot of people who are on this path have walked through the fire themselves and they can just speak to it on a different kind of level.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes, absolutely. Well, I appreciate you coming on and telling your story and sharing your book and sharing what you do so that yet another story can be out there for other women to really identify with and hopefully the message resonates with them as well. And if people would like to find you, where can they find you out in the ethers?
Kris Ashley: Yeah. Thanks for giving me the opportunity. So Krisashley. net is my website and change your mind with Kris is my handle everywhere. I’m on YouTube, I’m on Instagram, I’m on Tik Tok. Change your mind with Kris [00:34:00] Ashley is the podcast beyond reality is the TV show that’s going to be launching on the ethereal network and change your mind to change your reality is my book.
It’s available in paperback, ebook, audio book, anywhere you get your books.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Excellent. I love having it in all different formats. That was definitely one of my requirements for mine because people need to be able to receive it in whatever way they prefer. So
Kris Ashley: Did you record your own audio?
Megan Mary – MeganMary: I did not. I had an amazing award winning British narrator, Pearl Hewitt. I wasn’t going to attempt to do 13 different characters, a talking cat and a British turtle.
I’m just not an actress. So,
Kris Ashley: Oh, that’s great. Cause your book is a fiction book.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: yes.
Kris Ashley: Okay. That’s fair. That’s cool. You got a British person to do it. I recorded mine and it was super fun to be in the recording studio and it was, that was a fun experience by itself.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes. Yes. For my nonfiction, I will. But for this time, I had to leave it to the [00:35:00] pros.
Kris Ashley: yeah, yeah. That makes sense for fiction. For sure.
Megan Mary – MeganMary: Yes. Well, thank you so much again for being here, and I will put all of your links in the show notes as well so that people can come find you.
Kris Ashley: Thank you so much for having me. I really appreciate your time.
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